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Imagine a place where children are leaders and they share their stories and sing their songs while parents and other children listen intently and add their own comments now and again. It is a happy place, full of energy and love. It is never quiet and never dull.
Now imagine that this place is a church and the activity is Sunday Mass and parents aren’t nudging their children to sit straight or pay attention. They don’t have to because the children are listening to what other children have to say about God and service to others and kindness. They know that being quiet during a homily is not the ultimate goal but participating is - answering questions and sharing ideas. Imagine this is a mass where children want to come.
Have you wandered into a dream? Could such a children-centered Eucharistic celebration exist? Yes, it does - twice every Sunday morning at St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church and it is called the Family Mass.
The joy and energy of the Family Mass can be felt as you enter the Church. Most of the children are gathering together after attending their morning Sunday school classes. There are colored pictures to show and hugs to be shared with parents who are filtering in from the gym mass. There is a sense of community, vibrant and lively. Everyone is welcomed by the host family and by the presider, usually Fr. Jim Cassidy.
Parents and children take active roles in the various ministries of the mass - from host family to homilist, to Eucharistic minister, musical guests and sacristan. Children write and read petitions, play musical instruments and offer their food donations at the offertory.
Each Sunday they gather in the center of the room for the homily where they can share their ideas on such topics as forgiveness and love and friendship. Each homily has a lesson to be taken home, such as “we can love and forgive even when we are angry.”
During one Sunday homily last spring, the children were asked how they show random acts of kindness. “Visit a sick friend,” “offer a hug,” “eat lunch with someone new,” “call a lonely person,” were just a few examples offered by the children.
The homilies may take the form of a play, a discussion or a dance. One of the most popular Family Masses is when Farmer Rick joins the group with his lessons from the animal world. With his furry friends in tow, he is quick to point out that animals accept each other regardless of how they look. By stoking a bunny softly he teaches that we need to treat our friends nicely so they enjoy our company. Or by listening to a bleating baby goat we are reminded that each of us has a unique voice. The lessons are simple yet gripping. And almost always, they bring smiles and laughter.

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